Right now (early 2026) many people are wondering if leaving the US is something they should consider--I know, I was one of those people! After years of deliberating, one massive Mural board with dozens of 2x2s and pros and cons, 20,000 articles, IG posts, and freakout texts sent to each other, whispered conversations on car rides (kids in the back), my partner Grover Wehman-Brown and I came to a decision. We also helped some of our friends with their journey by sharing our tools and Mural board. Many people have chosen to leave, and others might want to leave but can't because of aging parents, shared custody, work or any of a number of complex grown-up reasons.

 

It's not an easy decision. It's huge. And it cant be done in one conversation. You need a container to hold it. Some we made one that was accessible to everyone. And gives you the tools to help make your circumstances work for you, no matter where you decide to live.  

Together we created a fillable workbook to help people considering leaving the US decide if the move is right for them. It includes 12 steps with 61 exercises to help you feel confident if your desiions, help you create the life you want no matter where you decide to be, and move on with your life. The worksheets are boldly- and joyfully-designed--we wanted you to have something delightful to look at while thinking through these big decisions. Also, note that you don't have to do them all!